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Men & Women Can't Enjoy The Same Movies

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The video discusses a viral debate claiming that men and women often disagree on which movies are “best,” and that this shows up in mainstream rankings and fan lists. It starts with examples from tweets and replies, where people argue their preferences reflect gendered tastes—either by assuming certain movies are unappealing or by claiming films favored by one gender lack “morals” or messaging (beyond violence/sexualization).

The hosts push back against the idea that these differences are just insults or stereotypes. They argue that preferences can be genuinely different without being inherently right or wrong—or “objective.”

The “Disparity Ranking” Claim

A large part of the video centers on a purported “disparity ranking” of movies that score very differently with men versus women. The video treats the list as potentially unreliable (e.g., “source unknown,” possibly fake, possibly outdated), but still uses it to discuss patterns.

Higher with women (as described)

  • Harry Potter (appears as the top entries)
  • Wonder Woman (noted as surprising, with support tied to box-office gender-split discussion)
  • Pride and Prejudice
  • Frozen
  • Tangled
  • Hidden Figures
  • The Notebook
  • Beauty and the Beast
  • The Sound of Music
  • Despicable Me
  • The Hunger Games (particularly later films)
  • The Blind Side
  • Others (not specified)

Higher with men (as described)

  • Raging Bull
  • Das Boot
  • Paths of Glory
  • Seven Samurai
  • Lawrence of Arabia
  • The Bridge on the River Kwai
  • Platoon
  • Rocky
  • Unforgiven
  • Rashomon
  • The Thing
  • Double Indemnity
  • M
  • Blade Runner 2049 (surprising to some since the original is not mentioned)
  • The Great Escape
  • 12 Angry Men
  • Casino
  • Others (not specified)

Addressing Stereotypes in the Comments

The comment section around the viral tweet is summarized as largely relying on gender stereotypes, such as:

  • Women preferring “whatever’s streaming” and “kids magic”
  • Men preferring “esoteric” war/space/cool-culture films

The hosts respond by calling some arguments straw men—pushing back against simplistic claims like “women think everything is easy,” and arguing that magical elements don’t automatically imply childish or inferior storytelling.

Alternative Datasets and Additional Rankings

To add nuance, the video brings in other sources.

Letterboxd lists split by pronouns

Women’s top picks (she/her)

  • Dead Poets Society
  • La La Land
  • Little Women
  • 10 Things I Hate About You
  • Pride and Prejudice
  • Interstellar
  • Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
  • Coraline
  • The Perks of Being a Wallflower
  • Call Me By Your Name

Men’s top picks (he/him)

  • Interstellar
  • La La Land
  • Whiplash
  • Fight Club
  • The Dark Knight
  • Good Will Hunting
  • Everything Everywhere All at Once
  • The Shawshank Redemption
  • Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
  • Pulp Fiction

IMDb claim (as mentioned by the hosts)

The hosts mention an IMDb list of top-rated movies by women on IMDb (2018) and claim there is little overlap with the male/female Letterboxd lists—possibly due to demographic differences (e.g., IMDb skewing older).

Universal Appeal and Why Preferences Still Differ

Even with differences, the hosts point to overlapping titles that show “universal appeal,” such as:

  • La La Land
  • Interstellar
  • Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

They argue that movies can resonate across genders for different reasons. For example, in the spy genre:

  • Men may connect through a fantasy of being like James Bond
  • Women may connect through relational dynamics, role reversal, or “who saves whom” narratives

Conclusion: Limits of Reducing Taste to Gender

The video ultimately argues that reducing art preferences into a strict male-vs-female formula is difficult. Subjective taste can’t be fully explained by data alone.

It also critiques the notion that:

  • streaming/analytics teams can distill the “beauty of art” into measurable points
  • studios should aim for perfectly engineered mass appeal

Instead, the hosts conclude that a more reasonable approach is to make content for the intended demographic and allow others to discover it naturally—rather than assuming only one gender “gets” certain films (using Star Wars as an example of a franchise often framed as “for men,” yet still loved by some women).

Presenters or contributors

  • The hosts/speakers of the video (referred to collectively as “we/us” in the subtitles; specific names are not provided in the provided text).

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