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Keep The New VERSION Of Your SPECIFIC PERSON, What To DO When They Come Back (STAY In The STATE)

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Wellness and Self-Improvement

Key wellness / mindset + productivity strategies (self-concept “manifestation” coaching)

1) “Staying in the state” (and recovering fast when the 3D shifts)

  • Treat what you see in the 3D as temporary—it isn’t permanent.
  • If you get “thrown out” of your desired state by what you see:
    • Don’t panic or collapse.
    • Re-center and get back into the state (likened to getting back on a horse/beam after falling).
  • Don’t treat a momentary “wrong” outcome (e.g., less affection, missed milestones, no “babe”) as proof you failed.

2) Stop blaming the other person; focus on your own internal story

  • The other person is framed as reflecting your consciousness / self-concept, not as something you directly “fix.”
  • If their behavior seems off, the guidance is:
    • Stop thinking they are “not right.”
    • Stop blaming them or trying to correct them.
    • Correct your brain/story instead—your assumptions about them.

3) Replace the “old story” with a new one (self-concept work)

A core emphasis is that “getting them back” requires changing:

  • The story you still hold about your specific person
  • Your self-concept (worthiness, “not good enough,” appearance anxieties, etc.)

The subtitles repeatedly link outcomes to:

  • What you believe about yourself
  • What you believe about them
  • What you believe about the situation

4) Attention control: ignore/redirect what you see externally

  • The material acknowledges that “ignoring is very difficult.”
  • The recommended method:
    • Turn attention away from what you don’t want to reinforce
    • Put attention on what you do want (e.g., imagining them affectionate, calling you “babe,” spending nights together)
  • Practical cue: if they aren’t doing it in the 3D, switch your inner script to “they are doing it now.”

5) Emotional self-talk: don’t self-attack after triggers

When reality triggers you (text messages, seeing something “wrong,” them turning up differently):

  • Expect it—it’s described as old self-concept remnants playing out.
  • Correct internally rather than catastrophizing:
    • “That was the old me thinking.”
    • Don’t “beat yourself up.”

6) Clarify technique: affirmations = new thoughts (not magic-forcing)

  • Affirmations are presented as rehearsing/saturating your mind with new beliefs.
  • Caution: many people use “wrong” affirmations for their specific core self-concept issue.

7) Don’t overload with random content; stick to one “textbook”

  • The coach warns that consuming too many teachings can confuse the mind.
  • Suggested approach: follow one consistent framework instead of bouncing between contradictory methods.

8) Don’t ask for timelines; focus on subconscious reprogramming

  • Time-to-manifest is framed as:
    • impossible to guarantee (“no arbitrary number”)
    • dependent on how long it takes to convince/saturate the subconscious

9) Social/productivity boundary: avoid discussing manifestations with friends if it fuels fear

  • Conversations with friends are framed as potentially worsening things by introducing fear or contradictory advice.
  • Implied best practice: protect your internal story from external doubt.

10) Resources / programs mentioned as part of the method

Several named courses/challenges are referenced as the “correct” way to learn the framework, including:

  • Self-concept transformation
  • “Back and begging” (referenced multiple times)
  • Worthiness / “for love” (name partially obscured in subtitles)
  • Meditation/sleep tapes for anti-anxiety or core beliefs
  • “Manifest what you want by Christmas” 21-day challenge

Support structure in the community:

  • Squad subscription
  • Weekly live sessions
  • Q&A forum
  • Daily tasks and activities

Presenters / sources mentioned

  • Presenter/Coach: Repeatedly referenced as “Lo” / “LWS” (also addressed as “Hi Lo”).
  • Neville Goddard: Mentioned as recommended via lectures/voice.
  • Other named sources/platforms:
    • TikTok
    • YouTube
    • Spotify
    • Website: www.subconsciouslaws.com

Courses / programs (by the coach’s brand, as mentioned)

  • “Self-concept course”
  • “Worthy… For Love course” (partially obscured)
  • “Back and begging” course
  • “Everything you’ve learned about manifesting is wrong” (free course)
  • “Manifest what you want by Christmas 21-day challenge”
  • “Banish the third party sleep tape”
  • “Anti-anxiety meditation” (or similar)

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