9 Pickup Lines That Make Girls Chase You (STEAL these)

Summary of Pickup Lines & Approach Tactics (Key Lifestyle/Social Advice)

1) “I don’t believe we’ve met… I’d like to solve that problem now.”

• Works by framing yourself as high value and implying that not having met her yet is a “problem” for her.
• Positions the speaker as different from other men who are portrayed as too timid to approach.

2) “You look like you’ve made some bad decisions in your life… want to make another one?”

• Suggested as a playful, edgy line inspired by seeing a drunk girl crying at a nightclub (the speaker claims they weren’t targeting someone in that state).
• Best delivered with an ironic smirk.
• Subtext: hooking up = a bad decision (but framed as fun).
• Claimed to work across “types,” including goth/tattooed styles and other nightlife archetypes.

3) “Who’s in charge here?”

• For approaching a group (2–3+ girls), especially at bars/clubs.
• Goal: spark laughter and elicit reactions while you establish dominance (“they’re in your frame”).

4) “Hey… what are you looking at?”

• Used when you lock eyes while out (examples: grocery store, bar, gym).
• Delivery guidance:
  • Half-smile / smirk
  • Quieter, calmer tone
  • Avoid a threatening/aggressive delivery (e.g., not “Hey what are you looking at!” with hostility).

5) “You look like somebody I want to meet.”

• Presented as simple, practical, direct, and authentic.
• Works for:
  • Cold approach (strangers)
  • Warm approach (social situations where you may not be formally introduced)

6) Loud nightclub opener (very direct): “You look fucking magnificent tonight…”

• Recommended for high-volume, sexually charged bars/nightclubs where conversation is difficult.
• Strategy:
  • Be very direct (subtlety may not cut through the noise)
  • “Cut through the noise” with a bold statement signaling attraction immediately
• Delivery/positioning notes:
  • Higher risk, higher reward
  • Ideally warm up by approaching others first
  • Emphasis on dominance, authenticity, rawness, and taking risks
• Claimed rationale: combines ornate/flattering language (“magnificent”) with edginess/profanity to create “contrast,” which the speaker says feels magnetic.

7) Polarizing / slightly edgy principle (linked to the nightclub line)

To attract “top” women, the speaker claims you must:

• Be polarizing
• Be willing to offend them a little
• Avoid being seen as a “blonde boring nice guy”

Contrast analogy:

A “terrifying biker” who speaks like a scholar is attractive—similarly, a “nice, tailored man” who swears can feel intriguing because the brain likes contrast.

8) “I love your [blank]” (general compliment opener)

• Examples: skirt, earrings, necklace, shirt, or “I love your look.”
• Framed as:
  • Low-risk
  • Easy for beginners
• Works by starting the conversation with something specific she’s wearing or reflecting her personal style.

9) “Identify yourself.”

• A cheeky, fun opener intended to stand out versus the usual “What’s your name?”
• “Style points” are emphasized as the key payoff.

10) “Excuse me—has anyone ever told you how beautiful my eyes are?”

• Joke structure depends on timing and pauses:
  • Slow down and pause so she expects the standard flow (“you’re beautiful…”)
  • Then subvert it with “my eyes are…”
• Delivery order:
  1. “Excuse me”
  2. Short pause while she looks at you
  3. Continue the line slowly enough for each piece to land

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Texting / Online Dating Pitch (From the Video’s Ad Segment)

• The speaker recommends a course: “the girlfriend button.”
• Claimed teaching includes:
  • A “magic 12-word text” to make a girl fall for you quickly
  • A “cheat sheet” of texts/subliminal messages for dating apps
• Promised outcomes (as stated):
  • Stop ghosting
  • Stop flaking/ignoring/left on red
  • Increase attraction leading to fast commitment or sex

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Notable Locations, Products, or Speakers (As Mentioned)

• Locations/Venues: grocery store, bars, clubs, gyms, loud/sexy nightclubs
• Product/Service: “the girlfriend button” course (link referenced in the video)
• Speaker: Subtitles do not clearly identify a specific person by name.