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Five Possible Signs of Avoidant Tendencies in Dating

The video describes five behaviors that may indicate avoidant tendencies:

1. Sending mixed signals: Avoiding clear expressions of feelings or intentions and behaving inconsistently, which can create distance.
2. Comparing a partner with an ideal: Focusing on the difference between an imagined perfect relationship and the real one, which may lead to disappointment and difficulty committing.
3. Magnifying small flaws: Treating minor habits or imperfections as reasons to pull away.
4. Judging or dismissing a partner’s feelings: Calling emotions overly sensitive or illogical instead of trying to understand them, potentially making the partner doubt themselves.
5. Avoiding difficult conversations: Brushing off serious attempts to resolve problems or changing the subject.

Advice in the Video

The video suggests that these patterns may serve as defenses against emotional closeness. It advises viewers not to let a partner’s words or reactions determine their self-worth, or to automatically blame themselves for the partner’s distance. Instead, it recommends taking a broader view of the relationship.

For situation-specific guidance, the speaker suggests requesting a one-on-one consultation through the channel.

Presenter and Source

• Presenter: Cha Seung-il, introduced as a clinical psychologist
• Channel: 재회스피치