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One Thing My Dad Said Changed My Whole Life

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1) A life-changing “one thing” from his father: trust and obedience to guidance

  • As a student (around 9th grade), he runs home after school and tells his mother he wants to “do something big” in life.
  • His parents (especially his father) strongly guide subject choices and later life decisions.
  • He emphasizes a personal rule: he “never opposed” his father’s decisions in his entire life, which becomes the foundation for later outcomes.

2) Subject selection + stereotypes + pressure can derail plans

  • In 10th grade, he initially lacks clarity about what he wants to become.
  • He is afraid of hospitals and doesn’t want to be a doctor.
  • He also doesn’t clearly want to be an engineer.
  • He dislikes biology, and the decision is influenced by:
    • His father’s stereotyping and logic (commerce is for “stupid kids,” take what aligns with his strengths/marks).
    • His admission requirement to take biology (additional subject).
  • Then the plan shifts again:
    • His father is convinced to change the subject direction.
    • He is pushed toward Computer Science because a teacher argues coding will be helpful.
  • He later regrets choosing Computer Science because he had “zero interest” in it at first.

3) Health crisis + grief + public doubt create a “marble life” period

  • In 11th grade:
    • He gets double typhoid, severe back pain, and struggles with exams.
    • His performance drops; many “half-yearly exams” and overall confidence are damaged.
  • He loses his grandfather on 2 Nov 2017, which deeply impacts him emotionally.
    • He describes grief as slow—coming after the fact rather than instantly.
  • Teachers and others question him:
    • Accusations/insinuations imply he might be “cheating” or that something is “off.”
  • His 11th result is 67%, but people expected 80–90%.

4) Turning point: he commits hard to Computer Science in 12th

  • When he reaches 12th grade, he decides:
    • “Whether I get marks in anything else or not, I will get marks in Computer Science.”
  • Outcomes:
    • He scores 91 marks in Computer Science.
    • He scores ~27–28 out of 30 in Computer Science practical (approx.).
    • He also scores well in Maths (91–94 range stated).
  • He feels vindicated: despite taunts, he proves himself academically.

5) From JEE/engineering path → government college → money-driven reinvention

  • He gives the JEE exam but:
    • Counseling happens; advance release isn’t available; he doesn’t pursue it further.
  • He decides on Civil Engineering for affordability via government college and scholarship routes.
  • He receives multiple selections/results and scholarships; he describes the relief as “government funding” his education.
  • He studies in a government agriculture engineering college in Maharashtra.
  • Later, COVID prompts him to return home and refocus on earning money.
  • He says he develops “passion from within” to make money.

6) Freelancing strategy: grind until the first real payout, then scale

He tries many “shortcuts,” surveys, and approaches (including foreign creator methods), but practical barriers stop him:

  • No PAN / no international payment facility
  • Verification delays
  • Accounts and payments taking time to materialize

Eventually he starts finding workable freelancing on platforms:

Freelancing pathway (as described)

  • PayPal setup attempts
    • Tries to verify and create accounts; physical documents don’t arrive.
    • Saves up effort for ~8 months with no successful withdrawal initially.
  • Fiverr
    • Creates gigs and keeps trying; eventually receives an order.
    • First meaningful payout referenced: ₹350 for a banner.
    • Learns workflow through doing the work and iterating based on buyer feedback.
    • Makes confusion mistakes (wrong submission location; learning the correct order-page workflow).
  • Account setback
    • Later creates another gig in enthusiasm, gets a low rating (mentioned as one star), and the account is “slapped/disabled.”
    • After Modi ji video extends lockdown, he restarts and shifts focus.
  • Workbook/worksheet niche
    • Starts creating worksheets/workbooks for kids.
    • Lands a client (name mentioned: Beloi) and builds from there.
  • Scaling
    • Builds tools/skills, improves accounts, accumulates orders over time.
    • Starts a small agency.
    • Adds team members (editor Shikhar mentioned).
    • Posts content; first video goes viral.

7) Mindset under bullying/trolling: keep working even when confidence dips

  • He describes bullying/trolling (including comments about his skin/appearance and people doubting his choices like Canva usage).
  • Health/skin issues worsen; it becomes painful.
  • He considers quitting at a low point when:
    • He feels he can’t do agency work
    • He takes a break from posting (2–3 weeks)
  • He interprets the experience as motivation:
    • During the break, he decides to pursue a Master’s in Design/UX/UI direction.
    • He says not passing some exams (NID etc.) didn’t stop him; he continues via UX work.

8) Core motivational lesson: don’t wait for clarity—act, iterate, and trust support

Near the end, he distills his philosophy:

  • “Why are you chasing clarity from day one?”
  • You don’t need clarity to start—do the work and let results teach you.
  • Failures are “experience,” not “failure.”
  • Keep hustling and don’t give up.
  • Slow growth is still growth.

9) Earnings transparency + “what counts” in the income update

  • He claims an earnings figure (mentioned: “27 lakhs”), but clarifies:
    • It includes pure Fiverr income
    • Does not include YouTube, digital products, or other side-assets income
  • He outlines early offerings and later expansion:
    • Lead magnets, worksheets, planners/journals, Lincoln’s services (spelling unclear; likely “LinkedIn” earlier, though this section reads as “Lincoln’s services”)
    • Later adds UI and UX services and may expand further.

Methodology / instructions presented (detailed)

A) How to make subject/career decisions (implied from story)

  • Step 1: Listen to parent guidance (presented as a key “one thing”).
  • Step 2: Don’t obsess over stereotypes; follow the chosen path consistently even if you don’t feel interest at first.
  • Step 3: If performance drops due to circumstances, don’t stop—commit intensely in the next phase (his 12th-grade “Computer Science first” decision).

B) How to build freelancing income (explicit process from his experience)

  • Step 1: Try multiple income channels, but remove those blocked by practical constraints (verification, payment systems, documentation).
  • Step 2: Use a platform like Fiverr to start small and keep delivering work despite confusion.
  • Step 3: Learn from the first orders:
    • Deliver variations/revisions
    • Adjust based on buyer preferences
    • Learn correct submission processes (order page vs other places)
  • Step 4: Treat setbacks as part of iteration:
    • If a gig gets a low rating, deactivate/replace and restart.
  • Step 5: Shift to a niche you can serve consistently (he found success with worksheets/workbooks for kids).
  • Step 6: Build capacity:
    • Learn supporting tools/software
    • Improve accounts
    • Start a small team once you can handle more volume
  • Step 7: Keep producing content and improving visibility:
    • One viral video was described as a major accelerant.
  • Step 8: Maintain persistence (after years of consistency, things eventually click).

C) How to manage mindset when bullied/trolling happens

  • Step 1: Recognize it’s external noise, not a measure of your ability.
  • Step 2: Continue working rather than fully quitting (he took breaks, but returned).
  • Step 3: If you hit a low point, re-align:
    • He used the breakdown as a trigger to pursue further education in UX/design.
  • Step 4: Use experience as fuel rather than letting it define you.

D) The core “starting” rule (explicit advice)

  • Step 1: Don’t chase clarity from day one.
  • Step 2: Start the work immediately (“just do the stuff”).
  • Step 3: Iterate until it works.
  • Step 4: Don’t treat mistakes as failure—treat them as experience.
  • Step 5: Keep going with support from parents if possible.
  • Step 6: Accept slow growth; slow growth is better than no growth.

Speakers or sources featured (as mentioned in the subtitles)

  • The narrator / speaker: Shruti Rajput (referred to directly by name; first-person storytelling)
  • Father (“Papa”): unnamed, present as a guiding influence
  • Mother: unnamed, supportive at the beginning
  • Grandfather: unnamed, major emotional loss
  • Computer Science teacher: unnamed, convinced father to choose Computer Science
  • “Guru” (as a cultural/religious reference): mentioned via phrase “Gurur Brahma Gurur Vishnu” (not a specific person)
  • “Beloi”: a client name mentioned during freelance work
  • Editor “Shikhar”: hired team member mentioned
  • “Modi ji”: referenced as releasing a lockdown extension message (Prime Minister Narendra Modi)
  • Platforms/brands as sources (not speakers): PayPal, Fiverr, LinkedIn (spelled “Lindin”), YouTube, SBI (mentioned in context of withdrawals)

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