How To Handle A Woman Who Is Dating Multiple Men

Summary

Coach Corey Wayne discusses a viewer who met a woman through online dating, texted extensively before their first date, and became upset when she canceled their second date after saying she was also seeing someone else. Wayne says the viewer’s reaction likely ended the connection and uses the story to offer advice about dating and handling uncertainty.

Key advice and strategies

• Build a fulfilling life independently. Wayne argues that improving your health, confidence, and overall satisfaction with life can make you more attractive and help you avoid depending on a relationship for happiness.
• Keep pre-date texting brief. He recommends using messages mainly to arrange dates rather than trying to build the whole connection through texting.
• Be realistic about online dating. Wayne says people on dating apps may have many options, and a good conversation or date does not guarantee continued interest. He suggests meeting people in person as another way to connect.
• Don’t overinvest too quickly. Treat someone you like as you would other people you’re dating. Avoid putting them on a pedestal or becoming attached before you know where things stand.
• Respond calmly to uncertainty about a date. If someone hints that they may cancel, Wayne recommends saying you can meet another time, then pausing to let them respond. If they don’t try to keep the plan, he advises stepping back rather than pressing for explanations.
• Match the other person’s effort. Wayne’s approach is to continue investing only when the other person shows comparable interest and effort.
• Learn from setbacks without reacting impulsively. The viewer later regretted sending an upset message. Wayne presents the experience as a lesson in staying composed and not taking a disappointing dating interaction personally.
• Study and apply advice consistently. Wayne says rereading his book several times over multiple years was not enough in this case; he recommends studying it more thoroughly and putting its principles into practice. He compares sustained preparation to Tom Brady’s commitment to training and regimen.

These points reflect the presenter’s dating philosophy and advice.

Presenters and sources

• Presenter: Coach Corey Wayne
• Source discussed: An email from a viewer seeking advice about an online dating experience
• Additional example: Corey Wayne’s anecdote about meeting a woman through an online dating site