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7 "DIRTY" Things Girls WISH Guys Did! 😝🙊😈
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Summary — 7 “dirty” things girls wish guys did (from Jessica Jane)
A concise overview of the seven items Jessica Jane lists, each with a core tip and an important caution.
1. Ass play
- Key tip: Stimulate the butt/outer area (rubbing, grabbing, manipulating) and/or oral/anal play only with clear consent. She notes there are lots of nerve endings and it can be very arousing.
- Caution: Do not insert if she has said no.
2. Whip it out in romantic moments
- Key tip: When you’ve created a romantic, emotionally connected scene, surprising her by exposing yourself can be a turn-on. Timing and context matter.
- Caution: Don’t do this randomly or in public situations where it’s unwanted or illegal.
3. Dominate / take control
- Key tip: Many women enjoy a partner who confidently takes the reins in the bedroom; dominance can be a turn-on even for very independent women.
- Caution: Be assertive only within mutually agreed boundaries and tailor the level/style of dominance to what she wants.
4. Dirty talk
- Key tip: Dirty talk is most effective when personalized—learn the specific words or phrases that turn her on and use them consistently.
- Caution: Avoid copying porn dialogue. Pay attention and repeat the things that actually drive her wild.
5. Hurt us a little (pain/pleasure)
- Key tip: Some women enjoy elements of impact play or roughness because high arousal can blur pain and pleasure.
- Caution: This requires explicit communication and consent; don’t escalate to actual harm or ignore limits.
6. Make us work for it (tease)
- Key tip: Build anticipation—teasing, delayed gratification, or making her “earn” sex can intensify desire.
- Caution: It should be mutual, playful, and consensual—not manipulation or disrespect.
7. Come on to us / show desire
- Key tip: Women like to see the effect they have on you; overt flirtation and clear sexual interest (after emotional connection) are arousing.
- Caution: Don’t be creepy or perform sexual acts in public or without consent.
Other notes and caveats
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Repeated emphasis on consent, emotional connection, and tailoring sexual behavior to a partner’s tastes.
Consent and clear communication are fundamental — nothing listed should be done without explicit agreement.
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She warns against being “too easy” or accepting any partner who simply wants you—encourages standards and self-awareness.
- She offers a paid masterclass that claims to teach how to create the right frame/connection and progress without feeling creepy.
- Anecdotal warning: Jessica references a news story about a 76-year-old man exposing himself on a flight from Newark to Boston as an example of unacceptable public behavior.
Notable speaker, products, and references
- Speaker: Jessica Jane
- Product referenced: Her masterclass for dating/sexual confidence
- Anecdote/location referenced: 76-year-old man exposing himself on a Newark-to-Boston flight (used as a warning about unacceptable public behavior)
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