How to Go to a Bar Alone and Pull a Threesome

Overview / Disclaimer

The subtitles describe a provocative “guide” for going out alone with the goal of ending the night with sexual encounters (including a threesome). While the story and tactics are framed as lifestyle/“rules,” the content includes aggressive, misogynistic, and unsafe themes.

Note: Treat this strictly as a summary of what the video claims—not as advice to follow.

Key Lifestyle / Travel / Social Approach

• Go out alone for “adventure” and flexibility

  • Change plans quickly based on where opportunities are.
  • Avoid getting stuck in male-dominated settings (e.g., sports bars with groups of men).

• Belief: solo nights drive more

  • Dating/sex outcomes (the speaker claims most partners were allegedly met by going out alone).
  • Personal growth/entertainment from active socializing rather than passively watching TV.

• Belief system

  • Going out alone is framed as a kind of “religion,” emphasizing constant self-driven fun.

“12 Rules” to Go Out Alone (as Presented)

1. Dress with style and flare

   • “Drip” should be immaculate so women approach you.

2. Momentum

   • The first half of the night is about building social momentum.

3. Cover your bases verbally

   • Have witty/funny answers ready if asked why you’re alone.
   • Example comebacks (as stated):
     • “I’m looking for true love.”
     • “I’m a serial killer… I like to roam the streets at night for adventure.”
     • “I’m a werewolf / vampire.”
     • “I’m staying after friends went home” / “my friends are in bed asleep.”

4. Venue selection

   • Choose where “hot girls” are—not necessarily where the music or atmosphere is best.
   • Do reconnaissance to identify the right spots/times/days.

5. Reconnaissance (finding where pretty girls are)

   • Approach women you see and ask:
     • “Where are you guys heading tonight?” / “Where are you guys coming from?”
   • Repeat with many women to build a list of “hot places,” then ask girls there the same question.

6. Strike up conversations

   • Default opener suggested: walk up and say something like:
     • “Hi, I’m Michael, nice to meet you.”
   • Additional claim: confidence in appearance/eye contact/dressing can lead to high responsiveness.
   • Warns that even if women approach you, you still must be “in the zone” socially.

7. Get in the zone (social momentum + self-amusement)

   • Warm up with small interactions, then build duration/engagement.
   • Low-investment opener techniques:
     • Fist bump (preferred): offer fist, make calm eye contact; only start talking after the bump back.
     • High-five / military salute
     • Heart-hand gesture
     • “Flip the bird” (mentioned as a playful gesture, described as “classic”).
   • “Self-amusement” examples from rejected/awkward moments:
     • Overreacting, acting in character (Norman Stansfield from Leon).

8. What to do if you get rejected

   • Rejection is framed as beneficial:
     • The video claims rejection destroys the ego, making you freer and more fun.
   • Strategy:
     • Make it funny/absurd (overreact), think “what would the character do,” and use that energy to stay in the zone.

9. Close the deal

   • Once chemistry appears:
     • Stay at the bar for hours, keep moving between locations within the venue.
     • Use “leading momentum” by suggesting steps like:
       • “Let’s get a drink at the bar.”
       • “Let’s dance.”
       • “Stand outside for fresh air.”
       • “Introduce me to your friends.”
     • After ~40–60 minutes, ask if she’s adventurous.
   • Move toward leaving with lines framed as low-pressure, for example:
     • “I might invite you to come on an adventure with me if you promise to behave.”
     • “Bye to my place.” (Lead toward the door.)
     • A Jeff Allen–attributed line: “We’re going to go somewhere lovely that you will love… if you don’t like it you can always leave.”

10. If aiming for a threesome

    • Same “moving/leading” process, but with two women.
    • The video frames “math” as easier when women are in groups (two-set) vs alone.
    • Two approaches suggested for handling obstacles:
      • Bribe the friend: take the other woman aside and offer money (example: “50 bucks”) to leave with you.
      • Take them both home: described as safer because the friend feels protected.

11. Set the home atmosphere

    • Prepare environment:
      • Nice, low romantic lighting and music.
      • Music suggestion depends on number of women:
        • One girl: laid-back intimate/romantic vibe.
        • Two girls: high-energy fun/decadence/party vibe.
    • Champagne “pretext” and routine:
      • Keep a bottle of champagne chilled.
      • Use it as a reason to invite her home (example: “a client just gave me a bottle…”).

12. Make the threesome happen (music + “decadence”)

    • The speaker suggests creating a “decadence/he-donism” frame and even mimicking a gay bar vibe.
    • Claim: young hot girls like gay-bar atmosphere; “guards are down.”
    • Music examples mentioned (as stated):
      • Madonna: “Vogue,” “Justify My Love” (context), “Into the Groove.”
      • Blur: “Girls & Boys.”
      • Aelia Banks (spelled as such in subtitles).
      • “Bad Girls” by M.I.A.
      • Explicit/sex-themed tracks (e.g., “Gun” by DOA; a Cardi B track is mentioned).
    • Final claims:
      • Music can “program” behavior and moral framework.
      • Combine with champagne (or tequila shots) and the speaker’s claimed appearance to escalate.

Health / Recipes

• No fitness/health routine appears.
• The “recipe” is mainly a host setup:
  • Chilled champagne kept ready.
  • Optionally tequila shots.

Notable Locations / Products / Speakers (End)

Locations (mentioned)

• “college bar”
• “sports bar” (contrasted)
• “gay bars”
• “Eastern Euro doctor girl” (implied origin/background)
• the speaker’s “place/home”

Products (mentioned)

• champagne (kept chilled)
• “water cash” (referenced for bribing)
• tequila shots as fallback

Speakers / credited sources

• Jeff Allen (attributed for lines/comebacks)

Music / artists mentioned

• Madonna
• M.I.A.
• Blur
• Aelia Banks (spelled as such in subtitles)
• DOA
• Cardi B