Video summary
SPEAK ENGLISH POWERFULLY: Stop using these TWO words!
Main summary
Key takeaways
Main ideas / lessons
- To sound more powerful, confident, and fluent, stop using two weak/hedging words: “try” and “just.”
- Replacing these with more direct phrasing makes your statements feel stronger, more certain, and more authoritative in personal, social, and professional contexts.
- The video emphasizes that these changes improve both speaking and writing.
Method / transformation guide (detailed)
1) Stop using “try” (especially “try to”)
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Avoid: “I’ll try to finish the report by Friday.” Use instead: “I’ll finish the report by Friday.”
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Avoid: “Could you try to contact John?” Use instead: “Could you contact John?”
- The second version is described as having more authority and sounding more confident.
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Avoid: “We’ll try to be there on time.” Use instead: “We’ll be there on time.”
General rule: When you remove “try to,” you sound more confident, certain, and capable.
2) Stop using “just” (it can sound apologetic or inferior)
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Avoid: “That’s just what I think.” Use instead: “That’s what I think.”
- The “just” version is described as sounding like an apology or a lower-status speaker.
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Avoid: “I’m just calling to check if you’re free.” Use instead: “I’m calling to check if you’re free.”
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Avoid: “I’m just writing to confirm our meeting.” Use instead: “I’m writing to confirm our meeting.”
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Avoid: “That’s just my opinion.” Use instead: “That’s my opinion.”
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Avoid: “I just wanted to ask you a question.” Use instead: “I wanted to ask you a question.”
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Avoid: “That’s just what I suggest.” Use instead: “That’s what I suggest.”
General rule: Removing “just” makes you sound stronger, more equal, and eliminates the sense that you’re asking permission to speak.
Practice section (speaker prompts you to repeat)
The video includes a quick exercise:
- Read a sentence → listen → repeat it without “try”/“just.”
Examples:
- “I’ll try to update you soon.” → “I’ll update you soon.”
- “We’ll try to be more careful.” → “We’ll be more careful.”
- “Could you try to help the client?” → “Could you help the client?”
- “That’s just my opinion.” → “That’s my opinion.”
- “I just wanted to ask you a question.” → “I wanted to ask you a question.”
- “That’s just what I suggest.” → “That’s what I suggest.”
Speaker / sources
- Speaker: Not explicitly named in the subtitles (presenter/coach for the “Speak English Powerfully” series).
- Source/Series: “Speak English Powerfully” (YouTube video series).