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AQA A-Level Sociology Family and Households Revision in 90 Minutes

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Main ideas & concepts covered (AQA A-level Sociology: Family & Households)

1) Exam focus and structure (Paper 2, optional topic)

  • “Family and Households” is an optional topic for AQA Paper 2.
  • It contributes 40 marks total:
    • two 10-mark questions
    • one 20-mark question
  • It is worth half of Paper 2; the other half is the student’s chosen option (e.g., Media or Beliefs).

2) Sociological perspectives & theories on the family

Functionalism (e.g., Murdoch, Parsons)

Murdoch: what is a family?

Murdoch describes a family as a social group with:

  • common residence
  • economic cooperation
  • reproduction
  • adults of both sexes with at least two maintaining a socially approved sexual relationship
  • one or more children (biological or adopted)

Nuclear family claim

  • Murdoch studied around 250 societies.
  • He argued the nuclear family is universal.
  • The nuclear family involves two generations: a man, a woman, and their own/adopted children.

Four nuclear family functions (SEA)

  • S = Sex: satisfaction of the human sex drive
  • E = Education: transmission of norms and values
  • E = Economic: meeting economic needs of the family
  • R = Reproduction: producing the next generation

Critiques of functionalist views

  • Different aspects of SEA can be supported outside the traditional family, for example:
    • Reproduction: NHS/IVF
    • Finances: welfare state (e.g., child benefit)
    • Education: early years interventions (e.g., Sure Start)
  • “Dark side of the family” (negative experiences), including:
    • domestic abuse statistics (e.g., “one quarter of women”)
    • “approximately a woman murdered every 2.5 days” by a partner/ex-partner
    • examples listed: sexual assault, physical assault, emotional manipulation, coercive control, financial abuse
  • The argument that nuclear family is not a “one-size-fits-all” model:
    • extended families, single-parent families, etc. can also function effectively.

Parsons: family roles & stability

  • Family functions change to fit society’s needs (functional fit theory).
    • Agricultural era: extended multi-generational families support themselves internally.
    • Industrial era: urbanisation increases nuclear families (grandparents left behind due to limited mobility).
  • Two additional functions:
    • primary socialization (how children learn society’s norms)
    • stabilization of adult personalities (emotional support for adults)
  • Warm bath theory: family life “refreshes” a man after work stress.

Instrumental vs expressive roles

  • Roles are presented as gendered:
    • husband = instrumental (breadwinner, discipline, DIY, finance)
    • wife = expressive (nurturing, caring for children, housework)

Critiques of Parsons

  • Corporal punishment/physical discipline can harm children.
  • Legislation increased women’s employment, including:
    • Equal Pay Act 1970
    • Sex Discrimination Act 1975
  • Men can perform expressive childcare roles; women can discipline children too.
  • Modern household tools/aids reduce the importance of “physical strength” arguments.

New Right

Who they are

Politicians/sociologists/researchers who support:

  • the nuclear family
  • traditional values
  • conventional gender roles (men breadwinner; women childcare/household)

Claims

  • Nuclear family breakdown harms socialization.
  • Single-parent families allegedly lack strong male role models → delinquency/antisocial behaviour.
  • Emphasis on:
    • individual responsibility
    • opposition to state welfare
    • concerns about welfare dependency and the “underclass” (e.g., Charles Murray)

Moral panic framing

  • Quote attributed to “Patricia Morgan”: single parent families breed delinquents.
  • The video argues the “problem” is scapegoating single mothers via:
    • moral panics
    • folk devils

Counterpoints/statistics used

  • Only ~1% of UK single parents are teenagers (to challenge “teen single mothers cause collapse” narratives).
  • Average age of single parent given as ~39.
  • Claims that many single mothers work.
  • Single-parent headed families described as common (e.g., “one quarter of families”).
  • Children can be happy in single-parent families; toxic relationships may be left.

Media representation

  • Media often portrays single parents as argumentative/dysfunctional/chaotic/stressful.
  • The video argues this ignores that many single-parent families escape toxic relationships.

Familial ideology & “serial packet” families

  • Advertising promotes nuclear family norms (described via cereal-box style imagery).
  • Example: Fairy Liquid advert—emphasising gendered roles (and controversy).
  • Children are socialised into gender norms through advertising.

Critiques of the New Right

  • Morgan’s claim questioned:
    • over 50% of UK prisoners reportedly having been through the care system (used to argue broader causes).
  • Redefining marriage (e.g., same-sex couples) challenges assumptions that marriage is essential for gender socialisation.
  • “The two Michaels” are mentioned as male political figures arguing for two-parent families (names partially garbled), with critiques:
    • they speak for single mothers without personal experience
    • accused of bias due to privilege (middle-class white males)
  • “Dark-side” critique: those trapped in toxic households can be excluded from idealised narratives.

Feminism

Core claims

  • Family life benefits men more than women.
  • The family is central to gendered socialization and supports patriarchal interests.

How gender socialization happens

  • Canalization: steering children into gender-appropriate behaviours/interests:
    • girls: dolls/kitchens
    • boys: cars/building blocks
  • Verbal appellation: language reinforcing gender norms:
    • e.g., “boys will be boys” used to excuse destructive behaviour

Unequal capital and opportunities

Women gain less social/economic/cultural capital because:

  • smaller social circles due to expressive (care) responsibilities
  • men’s “golf club culture”/work/pubs framed as career-advantage networks
  • women more likely in part-time work; historically less inheritance access
  • marginalised women may lack knowledge of welfare/education systems

The “triple shift”

  • Women do more mundane repetitive housework.
  • Women are responsible for emotional well-being (emotion/relationship maintenance).
  • The triple shift is linked explicitly to later division of labour.

Power in decision-making

  • Men have greater control over some resources:
    • cars, holidays, pets, phones, pocket money

Recognition bias

  • Men doing expressive roles may receive praise as unusual (“incredible father”).
  • Women doing the same is more expected.

Abuse/exploitation

  • Police calls and reporting percentages are referenced to argue that abuse/exploitation is serious within family life.

Marxist feminist contribution

  • Fran Ansley (quoted): women “takers” absorb male frustration from lack of power/status at work; men’s control returns at home (linked to “warm-bath” critique).

Types of feminists (4)

  1. Liberal feminists

    • focus on sex discrimination and equal rights
    • use legislation/social policy (e.g., 1967 abortion act, 1970 Equal Pay Act, 1975 Sex Discrimination Act)
    • argue progress is gradual (“mark of progress”)
    • critique: may deal with symptoms; rights can be reversed
  2. Marxist feminists

    • main cause of women’s oppression is capitalism
    • women support capitalism via labour force/reserve labour
    • critique: may overfocus on capitalism and underplay patriarchal dynamics/differences in family experiences
  3. Radical feminists

    • society is founded on patriarchy; men are the enemy
    • family/marriage are key patriarchal institutions
    • argue for separatism and “political lesbianism”
    • critique: may not recognise improvements and individual preferences (women choosing heterosexual relationships)
  4. Difference feminists

    • reject treating “women” as one uniform group
    • differences by class/sexuality/ethnicity mean women experience the family differently
    • critique: subcategories might divide women rather than confronting patriarchy

Marxism

Core claims

  • The family maintains capitalist ideology (linked to the idea of the ideological state apparatus).
  • Women are treated as commodities controlled within capitalist family structures (men as “property-owners” analogy).
  • Marriage/inheritance rules help ruling classes stay wealthy (inheritance described via primogeniture).

Commodity & household labor

  • A “commodity” is described as market/exchange value.
  • Domestic labour and sex work are framed as paid/valuable services within systems, tying to burdens like the dual burden/triple shift.

Zaretsky’s ideas (as presented)

Family supports capitalism by:

  • reproducing the labour force
  • acting as a unit of consumption
  • providing outlets that cushion class pressures and reduce working-class unity against capitalism

Example: supermarkets enable “pester power” through layout and positioning of sweets/toys.

State involvement through welfare/benefits

  • The state ensures families consume (e.g., child benefit, tax credits, maternity pay).
  • Critique: nuclear family dominance is no longer as high; class-only focus may overlook gender inequality and patriarchy.

Post-structuralism & surveillance (Dune / Foucault-like ideas)

  • Families are controlled/monitored by the state through:
    • health visitors soon after birth (e.g., weight checks, feeding routines—often critiqued)
    • schools/professionals (attendance officers monitoring attendance; meetings/home visits)
  • Surveillance: observing behaviour to shape it.
  • Critique: agents are framed as beneficial (support/prevention), not purely oppressive.

Postmodernism: personal choice & meanings

Core claims

  • Reject structural determinism.
  • Focus on meanings people give to family relationships.
  • Individuals have agency to create relationships.
  • Increasing “pick and mix” family formation.

Example

  • A woman choosing single motherhood via divorce is framed as agency/escape from a toxic household.

Critique (from the New Right)

  • New Right would view single-parent choices negatively and claim only nuclear families produce full happiness.

3) Personal life perspective (beyond “traditional family”)

  • Considers intimate relationships beyond blood/marriage:
    • friends, fictive kin, relationships with dead relatives, pets
    • chosen gay/lesbian couples
  • Strength claimed:
    • highlights diverse meaningful relationships even if nontraditional
  • Donor-conceived children (Smart mentioned):
    • meanings of kinship can be constructed socially rather than purely genetic

Evaluation (personal life / postmodernism)

  • Strength: shows how families are constructed and negotiated.
  • Weakness: may be too broad to identify social “facts/laws” and may underplay structural factors (poverty, gender/class/ethnicity).

4) Division of labour (gender roles in the home)

Types of roles (B. described as “condal” roles)

  • Separated roles
    • men/women have separate expressive vs instrumental roles
    • leisure is separate
  • Joint conjugal roles
    • couples share domestic tasks and spend more leisure time together

Empirical findings mentioned

  • Wilmont and Young
    • roles segregated: men primary wage earners/decision makers; women rely more on husband income
    • men spend leisure with other men
    • women limited decision-making; domestic violence mentioned
  • Follow-up (“march of progress,” 1970s):
    • shift toward joint roles → “symmetrical family”
    • reasons for change:
      • mass building of council houses reduced extended family support
      • increased women’s employment (more instrumental role)
      • “white goods” reduced domestic workload
      • contraception (1967) reduced unwanted pregnancy shifting burden

Anna Oakley critique

  • Men’s participation claimed to be overstated.
  • Women report dissatisfaction and social isolation.
  • “More egalitarian than what they do” claim.

Supporting statistics used to challenge “symmetry”

  • Craig (2007): women do 50–66% more domestic work.
  • Momset (2014): women are “soul organizers” of emotion work (linked to triple shift).
  • BBC/other study (2014): young women argue regularly over housework; standard worsens when men do it.
  • Diman Thompson (2013): only about 1/10 of men do more housework than women.
  • Conclusion claimed: “modern man is a myth” (men not as equal as claimed).

Nuanced claim about men doing more childcare

  • Men’s childcare and emergency time off described as increasing since the 1970s.
  • Interpretation: men help, but often with “more enjoyable” tasks; women still do more practical chores.

Power within the household

  • Edgell (decision-making/power):
    • husbands decide major loans or have veto power; wives decide smaller daily matters
    • key decisions (job move, house change) tend to be joint or influenced by husbands
  • Follow-ups suggest little difference today; men justify using instrumental roles.

Emotion work (John Marson mentioned)

  • Domestic roles ignore emotion work, which sustains the family.
  • Women do emotion work without gratitude; men get recognition for atypical caregiving.
  • Reported outcomes:
    • women more unhappy; more likely to want divorce
    • men benefit from marriage more

Gender scripts (Dun, “Duhn” as stated)

  • Traditional heterosexual gender scripts: patriarchal norms embedded.
  • Study of cohabiting lesbian couples suggests more symmetrical childcare sharing.
  • “Capitalism” explanation proposed:
    • people rationally choose fewer domestic chores for the higher earner.

5) Marriage and divorce

Patterns and explanations (legislation + social change)

Legislative milestones linked to changing patterns include:

  • Legal Aid and Advice Act (1949)
  • Divorce Reform Act (1969)
  • Matrimonial and Family Proceedings Act (1985)
  • Family Law Act (1996)

Reasons for changing marriage/divorce

  • Higher expectations and individualization:
    • people wait longer to find a suitable partner
  • Secularization:
    • fewer religious reasons to marry
  • Divorce rate increase creates “fatalistic” attitudes:
    • “one in two marriages end in divorce” stated
  • Less stigma around cohabitation and divorce:
    • “divancy drives change” (acceptance increases through practice)
  • More women not wanting housewife role:
    • less financial dependency on men
    • feminists: marriage as patriarchal
  • Demographic shifts:
    • more single-person and lone-parent households
    • cohabitation doubled from 1996 to 2012 to 2.9 million couples

Theoretical perspectives on marriage (quick comparisons)

  • New Right / Functionalism
    • two-parent married nuclear family best for:
      • rounded socialization
      • discipline
      • financial support and reduced state reliance
      • harmony and stress stabilisation (warm-bath type idea)
  • Marxists
    • nuclear family supports inheritance/private property and capitalism; distracts working class
  • Feminists
    • marriage can enable violence/exploitation; marriage benefits men more

Why cohabitation is increasing

  • Rational choice theory (Shelton and John mentioned):
    • cohabiting women are more equal in domestic labour
  • Risk-aversion / “try before you buy” (Beck/Chetstar mentioned):
    • many cohabiting couples plan to marry
    • women delay until a suitable partner, reducing “left on shelf” shame
  • Divorce patterns after cohabitation:
    • people marry later; dual income reduces financial stress
    • legal aid changes reduce access (cut in 2013 mentioned)

6) Family diversity

Modernist to postmodern shift

Modernism (1950s)

  • Life predictable; fixed identities.
  • Rigid socialization into class/gender/religious/ethnic roles.
    • Example: women leave paid work, marry young, heterosexual, meet husband needs.

Postmodernism

  • “Confusion,” lack of structure, constant choice.
  • “Pick a mix society” and fragmented identities.
  • Example: stay-at-home fathers reversing expressive/instrumental stereotypes.

Key theories referenced

  • Giddens: individualization thesis
    • social change + uncertainty → individuals choose more
    • impacts family diversity, joint conjugal roles, more women in paid roles, smaller families
  • Kaden: confluent love
    • relationships based on love/respect; continue while beneficial; replace if not
    • increases cohabitation, single parenthood, divorce, same-sex relationships
  • Beck: negotiated families
    • compromise based on members’ wishes; reflexive decision-making
    • risk consciousness reduces marriage; increases cohabitation/divorce
    • gender equality + career-building reduces time for relationships → instability

Evaluation/critique

  • Postmodernism exaggerates choice; privileged authors may ignore structural constraints.
  • Despite diversity, most people still idealise the nuclear family.

Neoconventional families (Chester as stated)

  • New Right/Functionalism exaggerate “diversity increase.”
  • Nuclear family remains most desirable; people may move between family types but often return.
  • Reconstituted/stepfamilies are mentioned.

“CLOKCS” typology (as presented: acronym “clocks”)

  • C = cultural differences
    • ethnicity/religion patterns
  • L = life course
    • family form and division of labour vary by life stage
  • O = organizational
    • divisions of labour within households (symmetry/dual income/single parent)
  • C = cohort
    • generational differences (attitudes, divorce likelihood, etc.)
  • S = social class
    • role allocation differs by class (more equal in middle-class than working-class)

7) Social policy

What social policy is

  • State plans/actions by agencies (health, education, welfare) affecting family life.
  • Can be:
    • direct: laws on marriage/divorce/abortion/contraception
    • indirect: compulsory education, etc., affecting women’s paid labour participation

Specific policies mentioned

  • Divorce Reform Act (1969): increases family diversity; empowers women
  • Contraception availability (1967): controls fertility; reduces family size
  • Legalisation of same-sex marriage (2014): increases family diversity; 15% of gay couples married (as stated)
  • Compulsory education (1944): skills for careers

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