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AQA A-Level Sociology Family and Households Revision in 90 Minutes
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Main ideas & concepts covered (AQA A-level Sociology: Family & Households)
1) Exam focus and structure (Paper 2, optional topic)
- “Family and Households” is an optional topic for AQA Paper 2.
- It contributes 40 marks total:
- two 10-mark questions
- one 20-mark question
- It is worth half of Paper 2; the other half is the student’s chosen option (e.g., Media or Beliefs).
2) Sociological perspectives & theories on the family
Functionalism (e.g., Murdoch, Parsons)
Murdoch: what is a family?
Murdoch describes a family as a social group with:
- common residence
- economic cooperation
- reproduction
- adults of both sexes with at least two maintaining a socially approved sexual relationship
- one or more children (biological or adopted)
Nuclear family claim
- Murdoch studied around 250 societies.
- He argued the nuclear family is universal.
- The nuclear family involves two generations: a man, a woman, and their own/adopted children.
Four nuclear family functions (SEA)
- S = Sex: satisfaction of the human sex drive
- E = Education: transmission of norms and values
- E = Economic: meeting economic needs of the family
- R = Reproduction: producing the next generation
Critiques of functionalist views
- Different aspects of SEA can be supported outside the traditional family, for example:
- Reproduction: NHS/IVF
- Finances: welfare state (e.g., child benefit)
- Education: early years interventions (e.g., Sure Start)
- “Dark side of the family” (negative experiences), including:
- domestic abuse statistics (e.g., “one quarter of women”)
- “approximately a woman murdered every 2.5 days” by a partner/ex-partner
- examples listed: sexual assault, physical assault, emotional manipulation, coercive control, financial abuse
- The argument that nuclear family is not a “one-size-fits-all” model:
- extended families, single-parent families, etc. can also function effectively.
Parsons: family roles & stability
- Family functions change to fit society’s needs (functional fit theory).
- Agricultural era: extended multi-generational families support themselves internally.
- Industrial era: urbanisation increases nuclear families (grandparents left behind due to limited mobility).
- Two additional functions:
- primary socialization (how children learn society’s norms)
- stabilization of adult personalities (emotional support for adults)
- Warm bath theory: family life “refreshes” a man after work stress.
Instrumental vs expressive roles
- Roles are presented as gendered:
- husband = instrumental (breadwinner, discipline, DIY, finance)
- wife = expressive (nurturing, caring for children, housework)
Critiques of Parsons
- Corporal punishment/physical discipline can harm children.
- Legislation increased women’s employment, including:
- Equal Pay Act 1970
- Sex Discrimination Act 1975
- Men can perform expressive childcare roles; women can discipline children too.
- Modern household tools/aids reduce the importance of “physical strength” arguments.
New Right
Who they are
Politicians/sociologists/researchers who support:
- the nuclear family
- traditional values
- conventional gender roles (men breadwinner; women childcare/household)
Claims
- Nuclear family breakdown harms socialization.
- Single-parent families allegedly lack strong male role models → delinquency/antisocial behaviour.
- Emphasis on:
- individual responsibility
- opposition to state welfare
- concerns about welfare dependency and the “underclass” (e.g., Charles Murray)
Moral panic framing
- Quote attributed to “Patricia Morgan”: single parent families breed delinquents.
- The video argues the “problem” is scapegoating single mothers via:
- moral panics
- folk devils
Counterpoints/statistics used
- Only ~1% of UK single parents are teenagers (to challenge “teen single mothers cause collapse” narratives).
- Average age of single parent given as ~39.
- Claims that many single mothers work.
- Single-parent headed families described as common (e.g., “one quarter of families”).
- Children can be happy in single-parent families; toxic relationships may be left.
Media representation
- Media often portrays single parents as argumentative/dysfunctional/chaotic/stressful.
- The video argues this ignores that many single-parent families escape toxic relationships.
Familial ideology & “serial packet” families
- Advertising promotes nuclear family norms (described via cereal-box style imagery).
- Example: Fairy Liquid advert—emphasising gendered roles (and controversy).
- Children are socialised into gender norms through advertising.
Critiques of the New Right
- Morgan’s claim questioned:
- over 50% of UK prisoners reportedly having been through the care system (used to argue broader causes).
- Redefining marriage (e.g., same-sex couples) challenges assumptions that marriage is essential for gender socialisation.
- “The two Michaels” are mentioned as male political figures arguing for two-parent families (names partially garbled), with critiques:
- they speak for single mothers without personal experience
- accused of bias due to privilege (middle-class white males)
- “Dark-side” critique: those trapped in toxic households can be excluded from idealised narratives.
Feminism
Core claims
- Family life benefits men more than women.
- The family is central to gendered socialization and supports patriarchal interests.
How gender socialization happens
- Canalization: steering children into gender-appropriate behaviours/interests:
- girls: dolls/kitchens
- boys: cars/building blocks
- Verbal appellation: language reinforcing gender norms:
- e.g., “boys will be boys” used to excuse destructive behaviour
Unequal capital and opportunities
Women gain less social/economic/cultural capital because:
- smaller social circles due to expressive (care) responsibilities
- men’s “golf club culture”/work/pubs framed as career-advantage networks
- women more likely in part-time work; historically less inheritance access
- marginalised women may lack knowledge of welfare/education systems
The “triple shift”
- Women do more mundane repetitive housework.
- Women are responsible for emotional well-being (emotion/relationship maintenance).
- The triple shift is linked explicitly to later division of labour.
Power in decision-making
- Men have greater control over some resources:
- cars, holidays, pets, phones, pocket money
Recognition bias
- Men doing expressive roles may receive praise as unusual (“incredible father”).
- Women doing the same is more expected.
Abuse/exploitation
- Police calls and reporting percentages are referenced to argue that abuse/exploitation is serious within family life.
Marxist feminist contribution
- Fran Ansley (quoted): women “takers” absorb male frustration from lack of power/status at work; men’s control returns at home (linked to “warm-bath” critique).
Types of feminists (4)
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Liberal feminists
- focus on sex discrimination and equal rights
- use legislation/social policy (e.g., 1967 abortion act, 1970 Equal Pay Act, 1975 Sex Discrimination Act)
- argue progress is gradual (“mark of progress”)
- critique: may deal with symptoms; rights can be reversed
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Marxist feminists
- main cause of women’s oppression is capitalism
- women support capitalism via labour force/reserve labour
- critique: may overfocus on capitalism and underplay patriarchal dynamics/differences in family experiences
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Radical feminists
- society is founded on patriarchy; men are the enemy
- family/marriage are key patriarchal institutions
- argue for separatism and “political lesbianism”
- critique: may not recognise improvements and individual preferences (women choosing heterosexual relationships)
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Difference feminists
- reject treating “women” as one uniform group
- differences by class/sexuality/ethnicity mean women experience the family differently
- critique: subcategories might divide women rather than confronting patriarchy
Marxism
Core claims
- The family maintains capitalist ideology (linked to the idea of the ideological state apparatus).
- Women are treated as commodities controlled within capitalist family structures (men as “property-owners” analogy).
- Marriage/inheritance rules help ruling classes stay wealthy (inheritance described via primogeniture).
Commodity & household labor
- A “commodity” is described as market/exchange value.
- Domestic labour and sex work are framed as paid/valuable services within systems, tying to burdens like the dual burden/triple shift.
Zaretsky’s ideas (as presented)
Family supports capitalism by:
- reproducing the labour force
- acting as a unit of consumption
- providing outlets that cushion class pressures and reduce working-class unity against capitalism
Example: supermarkets enable “pester power” through layout and positioning of sweets/toys.
State involvement through welfare/benefits
- The state ensures families consume (e.g., child benefit, tax credits, maternity pay).
- Critique: nuclear family dominance is no longer as high; class-only focus may overlook gender inequality and patriarchy.
Post-structuralism & surveillance (Dune / Foucault-like ideas)
- Families are controlled/monitored by the state through:
- health visitors soon after birth (e.g., weight checks, feeding routines—often critiqued)
- schools/professionals (attendance officers monitoring attendance; meetings/home visits)
- Surveillance: observing behaviour to shape it.
- Critique: agents are framed as beneficial (support/prevention), not purely oppressive.
Postmodernism: personal choice & meanings
Core claims
- Reject structural determinism.
- Focus on meanings people give to family relationships.
- Individuals have agency to create relationships.
- Increasing “pick and mix” family formation.
Example
- A woman choosing single motherhood via divorce is framed as agency/escape from a toxic household.
Critique (from the New Right)
- New Right would view single-parent choices negatively and claim only nuclear families produce full happiness.
3) Personal life perspective (beyond “traditional family”)
- Considers intimate relationships beyond blood/marriage:
- friends, fictive kin, relationships with dead relatives, pets
- chosen gay/lesbian couples
- Strength claimed:
- highlights diverse meaningful relationships even if nontraditional
- Donor-conceived children (Smart mentioned):
- meanings of kinship can be constructed socially rather than purely genetic
Evaluation (personal life / postmodernism)
- Strength: shows how families are constructed and negotiated.
- Weakness: may be too broad to identify social “facts/laws” and may underplay structural factors (poverty, gender/class/ethnicity).
4) Division of labour (gender roles in the home)
Types of roles (B. described as “condal” roles)
- Separated roles
- men/women have separate expressive vs instrumental roles
- leisure is separate
- Joint conjugal roles
- couples share domestic tasks and spend more leisure time together
Empirical findings mentioned
- Wilmont and Young
- roles segregated: men primary wage earners/decision makers; women rely more on husband income
- men spend leisure with other men
- women limited decision-making; domestic violence mentioned
- Follow-up (“march of progress,” 1970s):
- shift toward joint roles → “symmetrical family”
- reasons for change:
- mass building of council houses reduced extended family support
- increased women’s employment (more instrumental role)
- “white goods” reduced domestic workload
- contraception (1967) reduced unwanted pregnancy shifting burden
Anna Oakley critique
- Men’s participation claimed to be overstated.
- Women report dissatisfaction and social isolation.
- “More egalitarian than what they do” claim.
Supporting statistics used to challenge “symmetry”
- Craig (2007): women do 50–66% more domestic work.
- Momset (2014): women are “soul organizers” of emotion work (linked to triple shift).
- BBC/other study (2014): young women argue regularly over housework; standard worsens when men do it.
- Diman Thompson (2013): only about 1/10 of men do more housework than women.
- Conclusion claimed: “modern man is a myth” (men not as equal as claimed).
Nuanced claim about men doing more childcare
- Men’s childcare and emergency time off described as increasing since the 1970s.
- Interpretation: men help, but often with “more enjoyable” tasks; women still do more practical chores.
Power within the household
- Edgell (decision-making/power):
- husbands decide major loans or have veto power; wives decide smaller daily matters
- key decisions (job move, house change) tend to be joint or influenced by husbands
- Follow-ups suggest little difference today; men justify using instrumental roles.
Emotion work (John Marson mentioned)
- Domestic roles ignore emotion work, which sustains the family.
- Women do emotion work without gratitude; men get recognition for atypical caregiving.
- Reported outcomes:
- women more unhappy; more likely to want divorce
- men benefit from marriage more
Gender scripts (Dun, “Duhn” as stated)
- Traditional heterosexual gender scripts: patriarchal norms embedded.
- Study of cohabiting lesbian couples suggests more symmetrical childcare sharing.
- “Capitalism” explanation proposed:
- people rationally choose fewer domestic chores for the higher earner.
5) Marriage and divorce
Patterns and explanations (legislation + social change)
Legislative milestones linked to changing patterns include:
- Legal Aid and Advice Act (1949)
- Divorce Reform Act (1969)
- Matrimonial and Family Proceedings Act (1985)
- Family Law Act (1996)
Reasons for changing marriage/divorce
- Higher expectations and individualization:
- people wait longer to find a suitable partner
- Secularization:
- fewer religious reasons to marry
- Divorce rate increase creates “fatalistic” attitudes:
- “one in two marriages end in divorce” stated
- Less stigma around cohabitation and divorce:
- “divancy drives change” (acceptance increases through practice)
- More women not wanting housewife role:
- less financial dependency on men
- feminists: marriage as patriarchal
- Demographic shifts:
- more single-person and lone-parent households
- cohabitation doubled from 1996 to 2012 to 2.9 million couples
Theoretical perspectives on marriage (quick comparisons)
- New Right / Functionalism
- two-parent married nuclear family best for:
- rounded socialization
- discipline
- financial support and reduced state reliance
- harmony and stress stabilisation (warm-bath type idea)
- two-parent married nuclear family best for:
- Marxists
- nuclear family supports inheritance/private property and capitalism; distracts working class
- Feminists
- marriage can enable violence/exploitation; marriage benefits men more
Why cohabitation is increasing
- Rational choice theory (Shelton and John mentioned):
- cohabiting women are more equal in domestic labour
- Risk-aversion / “try before you buy” (Beck/Chetstar mentioned):
- many cohabiting couples plan to marry
- women delay until a suitable partner, reducing “left on shelf” shame
- Divorce patterns after cohabitation:
- people marry later; dual income reduces financial stress
- legal aid changes reduce access (cut in 2013 mentioned)
6) Family diversity
Modernist to postmodern shift
Modernism (1950s)
- Life predictable; fixed identities.
- Rigid socialization into class/gender/religious/ethnic roles.
- Example: women leave paid work, marry young, heterosexual, meet husband needs.
Postmodernism
- “Confusion,” lack of structure, constant choice.
- “Pick a mix society” and fragmented identities.
- Example: stay-at-home fathers reversing expressive/instrumental stereotypes.
Key theories referenced
- Giddens: individualization thesis
- social change + uncertainty → individuals choose more
- impacts family diversity, joint conjugal roles, more women in paid roles, smaller families
- Kaden: confluent love
- relationships based on love/respect; continue while beneficial; replace if not
- increases cohabitation, single parenthood, divorce, same-sex relationships
- Beck: negotiated families
- compromise based on members’ wishes; reflexive decision-making
- risk consciousness reduces marriage; increases cohabitation/divorce
- gender equality + career-building reduces time for relationships → instability
Evaluation/critique
- Postmodernism exaggerates choice; privileged authors may ignore structural constraints.
- Despite diversity, most people still idealise the nuclear family.
Neoconventional families (Chester as stated)
- New Right/Functionalism exaggerate “diversity increase.”
- Nuclear family remains most desirable; people may move between family types but often return.
- Reconstituted/stepfamilies are mentioned.
“CLOKCS” typology (as presented: acronym “clocks”)
- C = cultural differences
- ethnicity/religion patterns
- L = life course
- family form and division of labour vary by life stage
- O = organizational
- divisions of labour within households (symmetry/dual income/single parent)
- C = cohort
- generational differences (attitudes, divorce likelihood, etc.)
- S = social class
- role allocation differs by class (more equal in middle-class than working-class)
7) Social policy
What social policy is
- State plans/actions by agencies (health, education, welfare) affecting family life.
- Can be:
- direct: laws on marriage/divorce/abortion/contraception
- indirect: compulsory education, etc., affecting women’s paid labour participation
Specific policies mentioned
- Divorce Reform Act (1969): increases family diversity; empowers women
- Contraception availability (1967): controls fertility; reduces family size
- Legalisation of same-sex marriage (2014): increases family diversity; 15% of gay couples married (as stated)
- Compulsory education (1944): skills for careers