Summary of "Life in my 30s: Single. Unemployed. Lawsuits. My Story."

Overview

A 32-year-old finance professional recounts losing her job after a toxic workplace conflict in early 2024, then facing a defamation lawsuit and serious health problems (large uterine fibroids) that required surgery. After a long period of anxiety and unemployment she’s deciding to “reset” her life in her 30s, share her journey on YouTube, and encourage others that it’s never too late to start over.

“It’s never too late to start over.” The speaker is planning a full life reset and restarting content creation after recovery.

Key timeline and highlights

Education and early career
- Bachelor of Economics (majoring in finance) on a full scholarship at the University of Queensland (Australia).
- Returned to Malaysia to work at Khazanah Nasional (Malaysian sovereign wealth fund), then moved into investment banking and corporate finance advisory, helping with fundraises and listings on Bursa Malaysia.
Latest employment and dismissal
- Joined a Malaysian local bank in January 2024.
- Shortly after, received an HR warning over social media use and was later asked to leave amid internal sabotage and false accusations.
- Lodged appeals for unfair dismissal; employer responded by filing a defamation lawsuit demanding 1 million in damages.
Health
- Developed multiple uterine fibroids: one around 15 cm, others 7–8 cm, and several 3–5 cm.
- Symptoms began with unexplained lower abdominal pain and eventually required surgery.
Recovery and next steps
- Spent over a year coping with anxiety and difficulties finding work (legal records can be checked by HR).
- Deciding to “reset” life in her 30s and restart content creation, with plans for a full life reset in 2026.

Practical tips, advice and takeaways

Legal and social-media caution
- Employers may monitor or act on social media even if you don’t explicitly identify your workplace.
- Document and appeal unfair treatment—but be prepared for disputes to escalate to legal action.
Health
- Seek medical checks for persistent or unusual pain; early scans can identify conditions like fibroids.
Mental health and life-reset
- Allow time to heal and shift mentality gradually; take small, steady steps out of a dark period.
- Use singleness or downtime to rediscover yourself and clarify relationship wants.
- Seek support and be patient with recovery.
Career
- Consider changing fields or starting anew if re-entering the prior sector is difficult; leverage transferable skills.
- Be aware that legal or HR records can affect future hiring—prepare to explain your situation if possible.

Notable locations, organizations and people

University of Queensland (Australia)
Khazanah Nasional (Malaysian sovereign wealth fund) — sometimes auto-captioned as “Kazana National”
Bursa Malaysia (Malaysian stock exchange) — sometimes auto-captioned as “bersa Malaysia”
Unnamed local bank in Malaysia (the employer that dismissed her)
Speaker: the video creator — a 32-year-old woman sharing her personal story and plans to reset her life in her 30s