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10 Upgrades Every Man DESERVES to Buy Himself

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Key lifestyle & style upgrades (from the subtitles)

  1. Semi-custom suit

    • You don’t necessarily need full custom.
    • Get a suit that’s properly tailored—the speaker estimates it can save about $1,000 versus full custom while fitting similarly.
    • Colors: start with navy or charcoal gray, then add subtle patterns if you want.
    • A well-tailored suit makes you look and feel significantly better—and you may want a second one later.

  2. Your own tuxedo

    • Not for frequent wear—maybe once in a while (e.g., every few years).
    • Buying can be better than renting for special events: the speaker suggests renting may cost around $400, while buying might be around $600.
    • Have it tailored so it fits properly.
    • Benefits: more confidence and a “James Bond” kind of feeling when you wear it.

  3. A standout luxury watch

    • The goal is a watch that feels like an “I made it” purchase (the speaker mentions Rolex specifically).
    • It adds confidence and becomes a meaningful reminder—especially if it’s engraved/personalized.
    • Example engraving mentioned: “get to work.”

  4. A proper, elevated jacket

    • Upgrading your jacket makes a major difference in how you look.
    • Examples:
      • Peacoat
      • Leather jacket
      • A newer jacket from Collars & Co. (green, quilted/field-jacket style; warm; collar can be popped)
    • The idea: timeless pieces look better with age and can become a signature winter item.

  5. Matching casual pants with a styling upgrade (Collars & Co.)

    • Drawstring pants that are casual but comfortable.
    • Feature: the drawstring can be removed/tucked inside, letting you wear them more like normal cotton pants with a belt.
    • The speaker frames it as a way to stay stylish/sexy while keeping a casual vibe.

  6. One really good sweater

    • Choose cashmere or merino wool (the speaker recommends merino).
    • Examples:
      • Merino wool long-sleeve polo
      • Merino wool crew neck
    • Benefits: richer texture, lighter feel, and a more polished look—you won’t want to go back to cheap fabric once you’ve had the better drape and feel.

  7. A timeless quality loafer

    • The speaker cites Gucci Jordan loafers as the example.
    • Benefits:
      • Versatile: works with suits, chinos/slacks, and can dress up denim
      • Long-lasting: they’ve had theirs for about 7 years and it still holds up

  8. Higher-end jewelry / a more distinctive accessory

    • Upgrade beyond cheap/low-cost jewelry you feel you’ve outgrown.
    • Aim for better materials (e.g., real gold instead of plated, or nice silver).
    • The goal is something that feels unique/special and you’ll actually wear often.

  9. Great frames (glasses) or sunglasses

    • Nicer frames aren’t required, but they can be a worthwhile “feel-good” upgrade.
    • Options mentioned:
      • A cheaper pair from glassesusa.com (~$40) that still works well
      • Premium brands like Dita and Tom Ford for added quality and brand feel

  10. “Completely unnecessary” treat you truly love

    • One optional purchase that still feels meaningful (the speaker humorously references a Porsche).
    • Takeaway: after working hard, it’s okay to buy something you love—like a new wallet—even if it’s pricey and feels “stupid,” as long as it genuinely matters to you.

Notable locations / products / brands mentioned

  • Brands & products:
    • Suit Supply
    • Rolex
    • Collars & Co.
    • Gucci (Jordan loafers)
    • GlassesUSA
    • Dita
    • Tom Ford
  • Other notable item: Porsche
  • Engraving: “get to work” (on the watch)
  • Pricing references:
    • Tuxedo/rental comparison: ~$400 (rental) vs ~$600 (buy)
    • Glasses example: ~$40
    • “Thousand bucks” reference: Gucci loafer (mentioned generally)

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