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Etapas del procedimiento de mediación

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Main ideas, concepts, and lessons conveyed

  • Mediation as self-composed conflict resolution: A process where two or more conflicting parties come together to generate a solution that meets their needs.

  • Transformative/restorative orientation at the Águida Torres Marín mediation center:

    • The center promotes a mediation approach focused on restoration rather than only producing economic or major/significant agreements.
    • The mediator’s goal is to help repair what has been broken in the community network created among people through and after the conflict.
  • Key principle of mediator responsibility: The mediator should enable outcomes that:

    • Do not cause harm,
    • Do not create disproportionate benefit for one party,
    • Go beyond superficial settlement to restore relationships and community ties.

Methodology / process steps (detailed)

1) Prior investigation (before formal mediation)

  • Investigate what the conflict really is:
    • Based on the parties’ feelings and the history of how the conflict developed.
  • Assess suitability for mediation:
    • Determine whether the case is appropriate.
    • Ensure the center’s intervention will not cause harm.

2) Formal start of mediation (first stage with “three pillars”)

Uses three basic pillars:

  • First meeting (getting to know each other):
    • Parties meet the mediator.
  • Build trust (second pillar):
    • Create conditions for cooperation and openness.
  • Lay foundations governing the whole process (third pillar):
    • Ensure respect and active listening are guaranteed.
    • Confirm voluntariness as an agreed basis for the process.

Outcome sought in this stage:

  • Parties become acquainted and build trust so they can explain:
    • Where they “stand” emotionally and practically regarding the conflict.

3) “Tell me” stage (each party’s perspective)

  • Each person describes, from their own perspective and feelings:
    • How the conflict has unfolded for them.
  • From these accounts, the mediator helps identify:
    • Each party’s needs for resolving the conflict.
  • Active listening by the parties is essential:
    • It enables recognition and understanding of the other party’s position and concerns.

4) “Locating ourselves” stage (integrating perspectives)

  • The goal is to condense, triangulate, and interweave what parties expressed from their perspectives.
  • Identify:
    • The most important aspects of the conflict to prioritize.
    • What parties do not want to prioritize because it is irrelevant to:
      • The eventual solution, and/or
      • Building the agreements later.
  • A key mediator focus here is distinguishing:
    • Manifest (visible) conflict vs. latent (underlying) conflict.
  • The mediator moves beyond the “outer layer” to clarify what is behind the presented conflict.

5) Settlement / negotiation stage

  • Strong parties begin to negotiate based on:
    • Recognition of the other’s feelings and needs.
  • Mediator role:
    • The mediator is neutral and impartial.
    • The mediator does not propose rule formulas.
    • Instead, the mediator uses strategic questions to:
      • Narrow (“circumscribe”) the issue,
      • Identify solutions that satisfy the parties’ needs.
  • Ensures neutrality so the final solution does not disproportionately benefit one party over the other.

6) Agreement phase (finalization and form)

  • Everything negotiated and discussed previously is finalized.
  • Mediators ask whether the agreement should be:
    • In writing (on paper), or
    • Verbally (if words are sufficient).
  • Restorative approach requirement:
    • The mediator ensures the process fully implements restorative mediation—going beyond:
      • Only monetary or symbolic agreement,
      • Toward restoring community, neighborhood, and social relationships.
    • The entire scope of mediation should be “functionally completed.”

7) Closing and follow-up

  • Closing:
    • Reaffirm the bond that has been restored through mediation.
  • Follow-up:
    • Clarify key dates and next steps beyond agreement finalization.
    • Verify whether what parties agreed upon was fulfilled.

Speakers or sources featured

  • Águida Torres Marín mediation center (source/organization referenced)
  • The mediator (role described; no individual named)

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