The Best Cities for Dating After Travelling 40 COUNTRIES

Summary of Key Dating/Travel Lifestyle Tips and Highlights

Core framing: short-term vs. long-term dating

The speaker stresses it’s important to separate:

• Short-term dating (fun/parties) vs.
• Long-term relationships/marriage (family, loyalty, long-term compatibility)

Many locations are described as better for short-term dating rather than wives/family life.

Lifestyle-first travel motivation

He claims he moved from the UK primarily for:

• Better weather
• Better lifestyle
• Access to good gyms/training
• A dating scene he considers more favorable elsewhere

Implied advice: if you’re unhappy in your country, consider moving to one with better overall living conditions.

General “rules” he emphasizes

• Cities matter more than countries: different areas can feel very different.
• Safety and comfort affect your dating ability: if you feel tense/unsafe, it changes how you move around and meet people.
• For longer-term success, he repeatedly suggests:
  • Learn the local language (he specifically calls out Spanish for Colombia).
  • Build a social circle and integrate into local culture.
  • Approach more when “hot” women aren’t concentrated in gyms/streets.

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City/Country Recommendations (What They’re Best For)

Miami, Florida (USA)

• Best for: very visually attractive women; seems more short-term/fun focused
• Why he likes it:
  • He describes seeing many highly attractive women from Caribbean/Latin America and Eastern Europe.
  • Claims it’s easier to meet women quickly due to a more open American culture.
• Tradeoffs:
  • Expensive living (cars, nicer apartments).
  • He says Miami is harder for long-term, with many people “dating for fun,” and he claims many women are associated with OF.
  • He mentions cultural mindset shifts for immigrants/visitors that can hurt long-term compatibility.

Colombia (focused on Medellín)

• Best for: short-term dating; high concentration of attractive women (especially in smaller/selected areas)

• Places mentioned: Medellín, Bogotá, Santa Marta, Cartagena, plus Pereira (for nearby/smaller-town options)

• Dating notes:

  • He claims the “best ratio” of attractive women is in Medellín (especially).
  • He warns that Americans/“gringos” have harmed Medellín’s reputation, leading locals to suspect foreigners come for sexual reasons.
  • Safety anxiety is described as higher than in countries he calls “super safe.”
• Long-term warning:
  • He suggests Medellín is difficult for long-term, and says you’d likely need fluent Spanish to build a meaningful relationship.
  • He also claims many of the hottest women in Medellín mostly date Colombian men (not foreigners).

Peru (Lima)

• Best for: easier girlfriend/dating outcomes; comparatively more long-term friendly
• Why he likes it:
  • He describes Lima as safer-feeling than much of South America.
  • Says women are more approachable and often more intelligent.
  • Claims many speak good English and are interested in long-term dating.
• Dating “method”:
  • Approach people easily, including gym approaches.
  • Notes that hot women may be more “not everywhere,” so you may need to approach more.

Brazil (partial inclusion; critique of specific cities)

He partially holds Brazil back because he describes:

• São Paulo as “horrible”
• Rio as good only in summer, but “horrendous” in winter, with not many hot women in his experience
• A claim that many very attractive women may be involved with sex work, which he says is why he avoids that scene

He suggests the north of Brazil might be better (based on others’ reports and his limited experiences there).

Australia (Gold Coast)

• Best for: very strong dating market; described as livable and safe
• Why Gold Coast:
  • He says Gold Coast has the hottest women in Australia.
  • Claims women are everywhere: beaches, malls, and on apps (Tinder/Instagram).
  • Says it’s safe and a first-world, livable place (a reason he stayed).
• Condition he adds:
  • If you have high status / game / money, he suggests you’ll do well.
  • If you have no game and little money, he suggests lowering expectations.

Thailand (Phuket)

• Best for: short-term dating; “party” environment with many attractive travelers
• Who he expects to find there:
  • Russians, plus Ukrainians, and travelers from Europe (including Germans/Swiss/English travelers)
• Dating/relationship expectation:
  • He says it’s mostly for fun, not best for long-term.

Indonesia (Bali)

• Best for: short-term dating; lots of visiting attractive women
• Who he expects to find there:
  • Many Russians and Latinas (plus travelers from multiple backgrounds)
• Long-term expectations:
  • Described as mostly not ideal for long-term, largely because culture is more party-oriented.

Philippines (note)

• He specifically says: Manila is “horrendous.”
• Advice: if going to the Philippines, go to the islands (he hasn’t personally gone, so he can’t offer detailed opinions).

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Europe (Eastern Europe vs. West)

General European framing

He says Europe can be “cut in half”:

• West: more hookups/fun; he attributes it to feminism/Westernization
• East: more traditional, family-oriented long-term prospects

He also claims poorer countries tend to have hotter and more traditional women (as his belief).

Poland (and surrounding region)

• Poland role: described as more developed/safe/livable, but still central to Eastern Europe dating
• He claims:
  • It’s the “middle” between West and East—so the dating market can be more flexible.
  • Hot women are “not every single girl everywhere,” but there are plenty.
  • He emphasizes Polish women are loyal and supportive in relationships (compared to other places he mentions).

Slovakia (Košice)

• Best for: concentrated nightlife and very high “beauty ratio” in a specific club/nightlife context
• Notable detail:
  • He says there’s a single Saturday-night nightclub in Košice with a very high density of attractive women.

Hungary (Budapest) — warning

• He says Budapest used to be good but is now “destroyed” by pickup-tourist behavior.
• He claims foreigners (especially drunk crowds) have negatively affected openness to outsiders and local culture.

Serbia (Belgrade, Novi Sad)

• Best for: long-term, but only if you integrate
• Advice given:
  • Learn Serbian
  • Make Serbian friends
  • Build a social circle
• He says they may prefer their own people, so foreign dating may not be easy.

Romania (Cluj-Napoca, Bucharest)

He finds it less appealing personally due to:

• Many women smoke (a major turnoff for him)
• In clubs, he claims many women were doing webcam/sex-work-adjacent behavior, which he says he doesn’t want for long-term

Ukraine (Lviv, Odessa)

• Best for: very high attractiveness (as he puts it)
• Safety/caution warning:
  • He notes more scams, especially around strip clubs/“buying” situations
  • He personally avoided those environments and therefore didn’t have issues, but he warns others reported robberies/bad outcomes.

Moldova (Chişinău)

• He contrasts Moldova with Ukraine:
  • Says Moldova is extremely fitness-focused (he claims you don’t see overweight people)
  • Claims the beauty ratio is consistently high
• Ukraine contrast:
  • He says Ukraine may have more variation—some people look very unattractive/obese, with fewer “everyone is hot” dynamics.

Russia (Moscow, St. Petersburg) — mention only

• He says he’s not personally been there, but has dated women from there.
• He suggests waiting until after the war ends.

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Overall “Best” Regions He Claims

• Most beautiful women / best dating areas (his conclusion):
  • South America and Eastern Europe
• He also claims cultural differences affect outcomes:
  • Eastern European women: more “cold/less available” to strangers (vs. South Americans).
  • South American women: more affectionate/touchy/cheek-kissing style.

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Notable Locations, Products, or Speakers Mentioned

Speaker/creator

• Max Kzik (referred to as “Max Kzik”)

Notable cities/regions

• Miami (Florida)
• Medellín & Bogotá (Colombia), plus Santa Marta, Cartagena, Pereira
• Lima (Peru)
• Gold Coast (Australia) and other AU cities (Brisbane, Sunshine Coast, Sydney, Melbourne)
• Phuket (Thailand), Bali (Indonesia)
• Košice (Slovakia)
• Budapest (Hungary), Belgrade & Novi Sad (Serbia)
• Cluj-Napoca & Bucharest (Romania)
• Lviv & Odessa (Ukraine), Chişinău (Moldova)
• Moscow & St. Petersburg (Russia)

Products/platforms/app mentions

• Tinder
• Instagram
• OnlyFans (OF)
• webcam

Programs/links mentioned

• “ultimate dating program” and Patreon (as promotional callouts near the end)