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Overview
This document summarizes a live session on the NLP “Well‑Formulated Result” (goal‑setting) model. The presenter outlines a nine‑step practical process for formulating goals so you can plan, act, and avoid wasting time on unsuitable goals. Emphasis is placed on writing the goal down, analysing it, and creating a step‑by‑step plan to overcome procrastination and start real action.
Core steps — the “Well‑Formulated Result” model
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Formulate positively
- Phrase the goal in positive terms; avoid negations (e.g., say “I want to be slim,” not “I don’t want to be fat”).
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Make it within your control / take responsibility
- Ensure the outcome depends primarily on you. If others are involved, define responsibilities clearly (exceptions: explicit team or family goals).
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Specify sensory evidence
- Define how you will know the goal is achieved using sensory criteria: what you will see, hear, and feel (visual, auditory, kinesthetic indicators).
- Make indicators concrete (for example, bank statements showing payments).
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Visualize: associate and dissociate
- Practice two perspectives:
- Associated (first‑person): feel and experience the achievement from inside.
- Dissociated (third‑person): see yourself from outside (like a photo or video) with minimal emotion — useful for programming the subconscious and solidifying the image.
- Use both perspectives to strengthen motivation and clarity. Avoid overloading emotions in the dissociated view.
- Practice two perspectives:
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Context and concretization
- Specify context: where, when, with whom. Set realistic, time‑bound deadlines and add a buffer (presenter suggests adding ~20% when needed).
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Environmental check (ecology)
- Consider long‑term consequences across life areas (health, relationships, finances, job, family). Ask how achieving the goal will change other parts of life and plan mitigation for negative impacts.
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Identify obstacles
- List internal and external obstacles (money, skills, procrastination, fear, health, time). Be honest — each obstacle becomes a sub‑goal to solve.
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Plan actions / break into steps
- Convert obstacles and requirements into a list of concrete sub‑tasks (aim for 9–10 action items or more) so you have a step‑by‑step plan to start and avoid procrastination.
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Feedback and adjust
- Treat the model as a feedback loop: analysing each step may refine the original goal. Revisit and tweak goals as necessary.
Practical productivity and planning recommendations
- Always write your goal down and keep pen/paper handy — writing clarifies and commits.
- Check whether the goal is worth pursuing before investing large amounts of time — a good analysis can save years.
- Set deadlines that push you but are not crushing; if you feel internal protest, extend the deadline slightly (e.g., month → month and a half).
- Add a time buffer to realistic estimates (presenter commonly used ~20% extra).
- Break big goals into small, concrete sub‑tasks (turn obstacles into subgoals).
- Don’t compare your timeline or results to others — use your current situation as the baseline.
- Prepare and communicate with people who will be affected (spouse, parents, team) to reduce resistance.
- If a goal threatens important areas (health, family), find alternatives (part‑time start, evenings, gradual approach).
- Keep track of sensory evidence (numbers, dates, concrete signs) so you can recognise achievement.
- If no obstacles are apparent, ask why the goal hasn’t been achieved — missing motivation or clarity may be the real obstacle.
- Treat obstacles and resistance philosophically — people’s pushback often comes from love/fear; plan how to handle it.
Wellness and self‑care considerations embedded in the model
- Consider health and energy limits when setting goals and deadlines; avoid over‑stressing yourself.
- Be realistic about your personal working pace; acknowledge whether you work slower or faster than others and plan deadlines accordingly.
- Monitor how pursuing the goal affects sleep, family time, and relationships; plan compensations or gradual approaches.
- Recognize emotional resistance as useful information — write it down and plan how to work with it (coaching, conversations, slower ramp‑up).
- Maintain balance: set goals that stretch you but don’t chronically overload your resources.
Quick actionable checklist (what to do now)
- Take pen and paper.
- Write one meaningful goal in positive terms.
- Ask: Is it under my control? Who is responsible?
- Define sensory evidence: what will I see/hear/feel when it’s done?
- Visualize associated (1st person) and dissociated (3rd person) images.
- Set where/when/who (context) and a realistic deadline + buffer.
- List all obstacles (external & internal) and convert them into sub‑tasks.
- Consider long‑term effects on health, relationships, finances; plan mitigation.
- Set a short list of next concrete actions (9–10 steps or fewer to start).
- Review weekly and adjust based on feedback.
Benefits emphasized
- Clarifying a goal with this model can save large amounts of time and reduce aimless effort.
- Proper formulation creates a feedback loop that helps you begin acting and stay on track.
- Visual and sensory criteria help you notice achievement rather than miss it.
Presenters and sources
- Presenter / host: Yuri Puzyrevskiy
- Channel / program: “Энциклопедия НЛП” (Encyclopedia of NLP) — NLP live stream
- Participants / chat contributors mentioned: Santiaga / Santiago, Dima, Olga, Petrov
- General method referenced: NLP “Well‑Formulated Result” model
(Optional) The nine steps can be converted into a one‑page printable worksheet for filling in any goal.
Category
Wellness and Self-Improvement
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